2 years ago on 8 November 2011 @ 4:00pm
can you post questions privately? I love your blog but I don't want to follow it because of all the questions.

Sorry, but that won’t be happening :)

2 years ago on 5 November 2011 @ 7:34am
okay, so i like this guy in my year. He use to like me at end of last year but i had a bf so nothing could happen. He's heaps cute, and now i told him that i like him and he said "ahkk" -.- i mean we talk at school and all, he'll flirt with me rarely though. However theres this other girl whom he flirts quite a lot with. What on earth should i do :\ please help

Maybe he’s a bit nervous at your sudden outburst. Or maybe he’s just awkward about these things? Maybe you should let things die down for a little while before telling him how he feels about you?

2 years ago on 5 November 2011 @ 7:33am
So me and my boyfriend have been together for a year in 2 weeks and everything has been going great until recently. All he wants is to be alone sometimes and to not talk to me. I love him with all my heart and he is my first love I just have no Idea what to do, whether to stay or whether to leave because being made to feel this alone is hurting me more than anyone can imagine

Maybe he’s going through a rough time and doesn’t want anyones company at the moment. You never know, he might be moody and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings because he might do just that if you’re together. However, so near to your anniversary and the fact that he’s meant to be committed to you means that he shouldn’t be completely shunning you out of his life. Tell him how you feel!

2 years ago on 5 November 2011 @ 7:32am
My best friend is being really bitchy to me. She says she's just trying to help me and she's joking, but she doesn't realize how much it hurts. She's always negative and putting me down. Plus, she's home for the weekend from college and she's really over staying her welcome. She was supposed to go home on Friday night, it's Monday morning. I can't make plans with my other friends when she's here. I know if I just told her the problem she'd stop, but she intimidates me. She scares me.

If she’s over-staying her welcome and you’re really too intimidated to tell her to go home than tell a little ickle white lie.

"I’m going to see my nan tomorrow so you’re going to have to go back home tonight, sorry!"

Just something small like that.

I’d also like to just say, if she’s being a total bitch to you than she’s not much of a best friend. I think you need to really tell her straight that she’s being a bitch and you’re not going to put up with it. People like that don’t take no for an answer unless you dent their ego a bit.

Hope this helps:-)

2 years ago on 31 October 2011 @ 7:34am
So, theres this guy, were like in love but were not going out. (well at least i feel like he loves me, i know i love him) he is the biggest jerk but i love him so much<3 &so this friday i was at a party and apparently he wanted to hook up with me and i was so excited but nothing happened. ugh i just dont even know what to do anymore</3

I suppose you should probably try and find out how he feels about you and let him know how you feel about him, I’m not sure ‘hooking up’ in the sense that I know it is such a good thing at the moment. But I’m pretty sure that when both your feelings are out in open air, things will be easier xxx

2 years ago on 31 October 2011 @ 7:33am
Hi! I just made a new blog, and I wanted to find a way to start it up somewhere. Could you possibly check it out and if you think it has potential, promo it? Thank you very much if you do. c:

Hey, it seems pretty awesome:-) So I’m following (on personal cause this is a side blawg) but yeahh..


2 years ago on 30 October 2011 @ 5:36am
ummmm...your grammar is pretty horrible.

LOL, you’re most probably the first person to ever say that to me. I’ve never been criticized on my grammar because I’m a grammar-freak, so I’m going to have to disagree with this:-)

2 years ago on 30 October 2011 @ 5:35am
hi i just wanted to say i love your blog! xoxo it relates to me really well! Keep up the good work beautiful!! xoxxo

Thanks so much:) xxxx

3 years ago on 25 September 2011 @ 11:18am
please, keep on with the secrets! :)))

I will be, but at the moment I’m going through a rough time and I also have no internet xxx

3 years ago on 11 September 2011 @ 8:11am
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this is absolutely gorgeous. it basically sums up my entire life <3 thank you for making this beautiful blog <3 xxxxx

youre most welcome!xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

3 years ago on 3 September 2011 @ 3:19pm
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I go to a boarding school on a full scholarship. It's on the other side of the ocean from where I usually live. My housemates are teasing me about it and the fact that I don't eat often. That's because I'm a vegetarian and a recovering anorexic, but no one knew about that. It hurts when they make jokes about anorexia.

The worst thing about ignorant people is that they’re oblivious to what you could have went through, you don’t really want to say anything because they don’t know your past and so you think it’s not their fault; but it is! They should be more considerate to someones feelings no matter what they’ve went through. I think you need to tell them exactly that due to your past, you don’t take kindly to them sort of insults and if they ask you to elaborate then if you’re ready, you should tell them!<3 Sorry if this doesn’t help, any of my followers know anything that could help?xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

3 years ago on 23 August 2011 @ 6:15am + 1 note
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so i have this friend.. we're like really close. we tell eachother basically everything! a couple days ago she tried killing herself. this isn't the first time she's tried. she told me that she hates her life and is tired of people calling her a hoe because she likes one guy. everyone talks about her and call her horrible names. now she just stays home, in bed, crying. the day she tried killing her self i went to her house to check up on her .. but the thing is her mom doesn't know she tried doing this .. and the main reason she tried to is because her mom punched her in the face. i honestly would think my mom didn't love me at all if she were to punch me in the face! & the worst part is her mom took her off her cheer team because they got into an argument! look, the point is i don't know what to do. she just ignores my texts and calls! I'm so worried. i would go to her house everyday but i have a babysitting job and i get home really late. i just don't know what to do to help her feel better. any suggestions?

Let her know that not everyone hates her! Show her the good things in life and make her 100% sure that you’ve got her back no matter what! Tell her that they’re not worth it and just show her all the amazing things that life can offer, if she’s feeling like that then you’ve got to act on it and tell her dad? or a different parent/guardian. Not her mum though, maybe tell your parents xxxxxxxxxx 

3 years ago on 23 August 2011 @ 6:14am
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I don't mind if you don't publish this.. I just need to tell someone. Anyone.

I'm afraid you only pretended to care just to have sex with me.

If you feel like that then I suppose you should stop having sex with them (if you still are) and see if they still care? I hope they do care though xxxxxx

3 years ago on 23 August 2011 @ 6:13am
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For anon who's straight but likes a girl:
I have a friend who's straight, he's only ever been with girls, but there is one boy he likes. We still consider him straight, even though he does like that one boy because he doesn't find all boys attractive or even a few; just the one.
And, if you're terrified of talking to your friends, I'd suggest trying to figure out if they're offended of 'gays' before doing anything else. Hopefully, they’re not too closed-minded to find it just as acceptable.
Then, if all your friends, including the one you think you have feelings for, seem to be OK with it, I’d probably pull aside the one friend and explain what you’re feeling. Don’t be overbearing and insist that she like you back, just tell her you think you have feelings for her, but that you’re not sure. If she’s really your friend, she’ll hopefully try to get through this with you.
Of course, you don’t have to take my advice; this is all opinion.

Personally, I believe this is a great chunk of advice, so to the anon.. READ THIS! :) Thank you this anon and other anon xxx

3 years ago on 4 August 2011 @ 8:27am
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I need some advice. Okay, first, I'm a girl. I'm 16. I am straight. Very much straight. I've never imagined myself with a girl, nor do I ever think I could. But I have this close friend, and I think I may have feelings for her. I know if I try to talk to any of my friends, they'll freak out and label me as "gay." I don't know What to do.

I’m sorry but I really don’t know how to answer this, you say you’ve never imagined yourself with girl, nor do you think you ever could yet you’re straight up saying that you think you have feelings for a friend? Maybe you think of them as a sister or recently you’ve just bonded in a way you haven’t bonded with a close friend before, don’t ever be afraid to be who you are though - society is so lame atm that everyone judges everyone and so many people give in to that because their sexuality isn’t what’s “suited” to other peoples liking, it’s so stupid! They shouldn’t rule you, you should choose your decisions. Don’t be afraid to be who you are, I can’t say that enough but I can’t help but tell you there’s always consequences:( Butttttt, if you have feelings for this girl and you think she could possibly like you back then you should just take it as you would with a boy I guess.. I’m not really sure, if any of my followers have any better advice then please post it in my ask box :-)