2 years ago on 11 September 2011 @ 8:11am
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this is absolutely gorgeous. it basically sums up my entire life <3 thank you for making this beautiful blog <3 xxxxx

youre most welcome!xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

2 years ago on 3 September 2011 @ 3:19pm
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Anonymous
I go to a boarding school on a full scholarship. It's on the other side of the ocean from where I usually live. My housemates are teasing me about it and the fact that I don't eat often. That's because I'm a vegetarian and a recovering anorexic, but no one knew about that. It hurts when they make jokes about anorexia.

The worst thing about ignorant people is that they’re oblivious to what you could have went through, you don’t really want to say anything because they don’t know your past and so you think it’s not their fault; but it is! They should be more considerate to someones feelings no matter what they’ve went through. I think you need to tell them exactly that due to your past, you don’t take kindly to them sort of insults and if they ask you to elaborate then if you’re ready, you should tell them!<3 Sorry if this doesn’t help, any of my followers know anything that could help?xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

3 years ago on 23 August 2011 @ 6:15am + 1 note
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Anonymous
so i have this friend.. we're like really close. we tell eachother basically everything! a couple days ago she tried killing herself. this isn't the first time she's tried. she told me that she hates her life and is tired of people calling her a hoe because she likes one guy. everyone talks about her and call her horrible names. now she just stays home, in bed, crying. the day she tried killing her self i went to her house to check up on her .. but the thing is her mom doesn't know she tried doing this .. and the main reason she tried to is because her mom punched her in the face. i honestly would think my mom didn't love me at all if she were to punch me in the face! & the worst part is her mom took her off her cheer team because they got into an argument! look, the point is i don't know what to do. she just ignores my texts and calls! I'm so worried. i would go to her house everyday but i have a babysitting job and i get home really late. i just don't know what to do to help her feel better. any suggestions?

Let her know that not everyone hates her! Show her the good things in life and make her 100% sure that you’ve got her back no matter what! Tell her that they’re not worth it and just show her all the amazing things that life can offer, if she’s feeling like that then you’ve got to act on it and tell her dad? or a different parent/guardian. Not her mum though, maybe tell your parents xxxxxxxxxx 

3 years ago on 23 August 2011 @ 6:14am
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Anonymous
I don't mind if you don't publish this.. I just need to tell someone. Anyone.

I'm afraid you only pretended to care just to have sex with me.

If you feel like that then I suppose you should stop having sex with them (if you still are) and see if they still care? I hope they do care though xxxxxx

3 years ago on 23 August 2011 @ 6:13am
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Anonymous
For anon who's straight but likes a girl:
I have a friend who's straight, he's only ever been with girls, but there is one boy he likes. We still consider him straight, even though he does like that one boy because he doesn't find all boys attractive or even a few; just the one.
And, if you're terrified of talking to your friends, I'd suggest trying to figure out if they're offended of 'gays' before doing anything else. Hopefully, they’re not too closed-minded to find it just as acceptable.
Then, if all your friends, including the one you think you have feelings for, seem to be OK with it, I’d probably pull aside the one friend and explain what you’re feeling. Don’t be overbearing and insist that she like you back, just tell her you think you have feelings for her, but that you’re not sure. If she’s really your friend, she’ll hopefully try to get through this with you.
Of course, you don’t have to take my advice; this is all opinion.

Personally, I believe this is a great chunk of advice, so to the anon.. READ THIS! :) Thank you this anon and other anon xxx

3 years ago on 4 August 2011 @ 8:27am
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Anonymous
I need some advice. Okay, first, I'm a girl. I'm 16. I am straight. Very much straight. I've never imagined myself with a girl, nor do I ever think I could. But I have this close friend, and I think I may have feelings for her. I know if I try to talk to any of my friends, they'll freak out and label me as "gay." I don't know What to do.

I’m sorry but I really don’t know how to answer this, you say you’ve never imagined yourself with girl, nor do you think you ever could yet you’re straight up saying that you think you have feelings for a friend? Maybe you think of them as a sister or recently you’ve just bonded in a way you haven’t bonded with a close friend before, don’t ever be afraid to be who you are though - society is so lame atm that everyone judges everyone and so many people give in to that because their sexuality isn’t what’s “suited” to other peoples liking, it’s so stupid! They shouldn’t rule you, you should choose your decisions. Don’t be afraid to be who you are, I can’t say that enough but I can’t help but tell you there’s always consequences:( Butttttt, if you have feelings for this girl and you think she could possibly like you back then you should just take it as you would with a boy I guess.. I’m not really sure, if any of my followers have any better advice then please post it in my ask box :-)

3 years ago on 1 August 2011 @ 5:14am
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i like your blog :)
follow back please? i blog at least once a day

i can’t follow back because this is a side blog sorry xxxxx

3 years ago on 30 July 2011 @ 3:35pm
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Anonymous
he keeps cancelling on me and he always makes up excuses, i think he's lying and it killing me!

Confront him then! Ask him about it and if he still doesn’t seem so interested in your concern then tell him that it’s upsetting you xxxxxx

3 years ago on 30 July 2011 @ 3:31pm
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Anonymous
my boyfriends lying to me, what do i do?!?

In general, we get lied to quite a lot in a day. It could be small little white lies or something massive. Try and be more specific, what’s he lying to you about - he could be planning a surprise for you! Don’t always think its bad xxxxx

3 years ago on 30 July 2011 @ 3:30pm
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Anonymous
I had a friend that I miss with all my heart. Years ago, I feel like I abandoned her. We were a grade apart in middle school and went to different high schools. We lost touch around then. I've tried contacting her via her various blogs on the internet but she doesn't seem to want my friendship anymore. I've told her I was sorry for whatever I did all those years ago (we're in our early-mid 20's). I miss her. She was probably the person who made me who I am today. She was like me. Different. We still are but I don't know how to mend this friendship and I don't want to call her (I still have her house phone memorized). I've left her my cell to text me. I don't even know what to say but basically I'm worried about her and I miss her.

Give it a couple of days and if there’s still no reply then I think it’s best to ring, don’t intimidate her by being so forward but don’t give up; never give up and especially if she helped you be the beautiful person you are today! If you feel like you need her then you NEED to talk to her - force the information out of her if you really have too but be careful about how you try and find out things as you could just upset her more xxxxxxxxxx

3 years ago on 30 July 2011 @ 3:29pm
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I actually adore your blog, I can relate to it so much and I just feel so, like, normal after reading it, I don't even know how to put it into words how much your secrets affected me, you're an amazing human being and you're followed fo'evaaaa (: <3

Aww thank you so much this is a really sweet message, I’m so happy that the blogs helped you and it’s not ME who’s the amazing human being; it’s YOU and the rest of the followers xxxxx

3 years ago on 30 July 2011 @ 3:28pm
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Anonymous
Your blog is amazing! I just found it today. Keep it up!

Glad you like it, thank you:) xxxx

3 years ago on 30 July 2011 @ 3:28pm
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your posts are soo acurate...

love your blog <3

Sometimes there’s so accurate it’s scary but thank you very much xxxx

3 years ago on 30 July 2011 @ 3:28pm
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Anonymous
do you ever feel dead even when you know you can fully breathe?

Submission on anon or just a question? If a Q, then yes; yes I have xxxx

3 years ago on 30 July 2011 @ 3:27pm
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Is it bad that i can relate to almost all the posts you've made so far? :/ xx

Possibly so, but we’re only human; lets hope things can get better xxxxx